|  HarVaa | Dec 28, 2004 9:49pm | The Source
You keep looking for love from other people, not realizing that love comes only from your own consciousness. It has nothing to do with anyone else. Love comes from your willingness to think loving thoughts, experience loving feelings, and act in trusting, love-inspired ways.
The source of love is within your own heart. Don't look to others to provide the love you need. Don't blame others for withholding their love from you. You don't need their love. You need your love |
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Sponsor |  Statix | Dec 28, 2004 10:13pm | | So very true. |
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Sponsor | | SPANNERHEAD | Dec 28, 2004 11:23pm | | nice thought there HarVaa |
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Sponsor | | sila | Dec 29, 2004 3:15am | | giving love is the nicest sensation one can feel..hear hear harvaa |
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Sponsor | | invent | Jan 21, 2005 4:26am | for one to love others... one must first love oneself first ;)
Self love should be celebrated, but as sila says.. giving love is the most precious gift one could give.... |
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| | FAIRYUSER | Nov 4, 2007 4:23pm | | "You must love yourself before you love another. By accepting yourself and fully being what you are, your simple presence can make others happy." |
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| | zembot | Nov 24, 2007 11:27am | | Sometimes this lesson is the hardest one to live by but I have found thru my own experiences that the only way I could learn to love myself is to be just by myself for awhile ,no lover at all,just to be alone,live alone and learn about who I am as an individual.My life was always constantly filled of dating people.I'd break up with one person and go straight into another relationship.When I took some time out from being broken hearted that is when I truly became a person and started appreciating me and then it happened.I met someone and have been with him now for 8 years and we love who the other one is and it's a genuine and caring relationship.Self love is most definately important. |
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|  Frenchygirl | Dec 29, 2007 8:17am | | Nice thought zembot,that gives me hope for my life...But I have a question though,how can you love yourself when everything in your life is falling apart? It's difficult. |
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Sponsor | | imaniceperson | Jan 4, 5:44pm | Great point. If you love yourself it will wear off on other people. Being happy with your own life will attract others into your life as well.
You can love yourself during difficult times if you remind yourself you are doing your best. It is difficult but possible. |
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Sponsor | | digitalnova | Jan 20, 12:49am | Learn to accept circumstances while retaining your feeling of self worth.
Learn to allow yourself to feel good, regardless of the situation. Don't think, feel. |
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